“Love is that condition in which the happiness of
another person is essential to your own.”
This famous Quote is extracted from Robert.A.Heinlen's Stranger In Strange land. What does it mean? By loving someone seriously, actually what we are doing is not letting down our beloved one's happiness. In simple words sharing their happiness.
In majority what we see is LOVE starts by "ONE SIDE- ONE LOVES OTHER WITHOUT KNOWING THEIR WISHES OR LIKES , FALLS DEEP IN THAT AND EXPECTS SAME IN RETURN! "
For the fortunate ones they will get their "return" , but for the coin their will be 2 sides & and a captain who goes for the toss should think about the term 'PROBABLITY'. Here the One who loves is the captain and the lover who being loved is the Coin! For almost everything there would be a 'YES' and a 'NO'.
In many cases what happens is " WE LOVE SOME ONE WHO IS NOT INTERESTED, WHO LIVES FOR THEIR FAMILY, OR WHO LOVES OTHER" Without knowing all these we fall in love and get mad about it. In return we waste our life. Dear Friends, the one we think throughout a day won't even think about you for a second untill or unless she/he gets a call or message from us. Then why we waste time for them?
If she or he is not interested we try again and again, we hunts them and destroys their happiness for a long time. Then " How can we call it love?" This is not love, its called our 'Satisfaction' or selfishness. For our happiness we are ready to do anything,thats all.
If she/he loves you they will surely return it as soon as possible,instead hunting them throughout, before and after their marriage. What makes it sense? Only thing happens is we lose our mind set and become mad. An 'Insult' for our family.
So for all ones who falls in love failure, don't let your life down, it also belongs to one who may loves you throughout.
There is a big difference between "Loving someone and being loved by someone"!
Thankyou!