Why do We call it a Crush? CRUSH vs LOVE :)

Every Love starts from a Crsuh! When we love someone, why our Friends or we itself call it initially as crush,not love. What is the difference between both? I tried my best to differentiate between both,still I can't. In our world its really difficult to define "LOVE". We can simply say Love as a 2-way road. When we leave the world and never come back, the others miss me,my memories and vice versa. That is love! If a Hus dies and his Wife immediately marries to an another person, its not "LOVE", thats what we call as a crush. If our loved one won't miss our sound or laugh and easily goes to an another man's life,how can we call it as Love. Nowadays 'Crush after marriage' or 'Crush after divine love' is the common scenario. In DIVINE LOVE there is nothing called Breakup. Its a Commitment.

"CRUSH IS SOMETHING  THAT HOW YOU FEEL,WHEN THEY DON'T FEEL THE  SAME WAY IN RETURN"

Then what's the purpose of wasting our time loving someone,who doesn't even think about us even for few minutes. If we couldn't convert the CRUSH to LOVE. Its better to stop there rather than wasting the time asking "How are you","What you doing?","Had Dinner,lunch" so and so

First of all there is no litmus test to differentiate between love and crush. It will only become clear when the present will become the past. Then you might look back and say, "Well that wasn't love". But still there an few basic ways which can give you some idea about you feelings.Ask yourself, "How far you are ready to go for your love?" - If tomorrow the situation demands for a sacrifice, how far you can go without thinking even for a second. It's easy to say that you are ready to to sacrifice your life, but you know that that moment is never gonna come where you will have to do that. So, instead of life think for smaller stuffs. be honest to yourself while answering this and would get and idea whether it is love or not.
If yo think that  he/she is impeccable, perfect and  the best match for you within a small period of time, it seems as you have a crush. On the other hand, if you know that they are not perfect and there can be better option but it doesn't matter to you; it seems it is serious.

Infatuation or“lust” has a few great things going for it too. Infatuation gives you goosebumps. It puts that silly smile on your face that you can't seem to shake. It fills your mind with wonderful daydreams. And, of course, many love relationships start out as infatuation.
It all sounds so wonderful that we may not see the problem when infatuation is mistaken for love. But it's a big problem, and that's why it’s so important to understand the differences between love and infatuation.

 Crush is a choice and you may or may not pursue it; with love, you have no option but to just dive in.

Crushes are about temporary infatuation; love is about soul bonding.You may not care a damn about rights and wrongs concerning the life of your crush but if you are in love, everything ‘right’ in his life makes you happy and everything ‘wrong’ makes you sad.A love lost, is like a part of you dead.Crush is perfection personified; and the perfection has to do a whole lot with your perceptions.Can you remember any instance where your crush wasn’t THE perfect man or woman (of course, to you)? However, your love may not be the perfect person, but learning to live with all the imperfections defines your relationship. Don’t you agree?You skip a heartbeat when your crush enters the room; but when you are in love, it’s all so amazingly peaceful.

You may have a crush on anyone but you cannot be in love with every second person you are so magnetically attracted to.You may “fall” for anyone from Brad Pitt to Virat Kohli, and from the underworld Don to the roadside Romeo—and all of them at the same time, including fictional characters! But just think how it all would seem if you fall in love with all of them at the same time! 

"BASED ON A PSYCHOLOGIC STUDY,A CRUSH ONLY LAST FOR A MAXIMUM OF 4 MONTHS.IF IT EXCEEDS THEN YOU'RE ALREADY IN LOVE".  ASK YOUR MIND FIRST!

Fairy tales are fictional While Magic is real, "

 If crush is fairy tale… love is magic.", KEEP THAT IN YOUR MIND <3

LOL :)

-RJ